WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING
The economy of garnish
There is a whole economy of garnish: things put on for the photo and taken off for the eating, present for the look of the thing and consulted about none of it. Plates started it. Then meetings caught it, and careers, and whole rooms full of people added for the optics and asked nothing. You have been the garnish in a few of those rooms. You know the exact feeling of being decorative and surplus at once.
Present for the picture. Consulted never.